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March 8 – International Women’s Day

Today is an International Women’s Day. It is an occasion marked by women’s groups around the world. This date is also commemorated at the United Nations and is designated in many countries as a national holiday.

This is a very special day for women who are treated with dignity, love and appreciation, but hardly carries the same value for numerous women, mostly in underdeveloped counties, who struggle to survive.

When I came across this article about a very intelligent, enthusiastic, and driven to make a difference, young lady, Rebecca Kousky, I just had to spread the word.

Hopefully I will be able to reach many others who will do the same to help Rebecca continue her mission, and reach out to the less fortunate women around the world, to help them find opportunity, happiness, freedom, and independence.

Here is a short introductory for you about Rebecca Kousky and her invaluable mission, taken from her post:

“When–after graduating with a masters in Social Work from Washington University–I had the inspiration of starting up a nonprofit organization that would provide microfinance loans to women in developing countries so they could begin or maintain art- or craft- based businesses”…

to continue with this story, please visit her site.

Women worldwide are connected through arts and crafts, which creates opportunities for them to start their own businesses and improve their own living standards, as well as the lives of other women who assist them.

If you have been searching to purchase something very special, and unique, please check out the links below, as this is your place.

Not only will you find so many beautiful items made with precision and love, you will alsomake a difference and improve the lives of many struggling women around the world.  What a beautiful thing to do on International Women’s Day.

Special Sale – (check out ALL their departments…such cute stuff for children…)

Shop Designers – (look for store locations near you)

Gift Certificate – (Best thing for someone hard to shop for)

If you do not wish to shop, but would like to help out, you may make a donation to a very good cause:

Get involved in supporting women in developing counties:

HAPPY  INTERNATIONAL  WOMEN’S  DAY!!!!!

The Great Lent – Vegetarian Meals

Veggie Delight at SalaThai in Downtown Vancouver

Creative Commons License photo credit: sweetonveg

The Great Lent began about two weeks ago, which means that those who follow this tradition, abstain from eating meat at least on Friday of every week, or some even do it on Wednesdays as well.

If you are like me, and are used to having meat at least once or twice per day, preparing meatless meals a couple of times per week might create a challenge.  I used to really stress out about this during my early years of cooking, but after a while I built quite a long list of meatless meal choices, and could easily be a vegetarian, if I could only win my family over to that eating style.

I have been posting some of my  meatless recipes during this past year, so if you are searching for ideas, here are the links to these posts:

Palushky (Potato Dumplings)

Halushky (Pasta with cabbage)

Vegetarian Holubtsi (Cabbage Rolls)

Varenyky (Pierogies)

Homemade Pasta (in the lower section of the linked post)

Crepes

Tuna Melts

Veggie Burgers

Tomato Soup

Red Beet Soup

Sorrel Borsch

If you are interested in a rather quick meal, there is always Macaroni and Cheese (you can add in some steamed broccoli, or any other of your favorite vegetables), Tuna Fish Salad, Egg Salad, Shrimp Scampi, any other fish which may be fried or broiled, pasta with steamed veggies, pasta with tomato sauce, pizza, PBJ, etc.

With so many different choices, the few meatless days during the 40 days of lent, pass by so quickly, that before you know it, you are back to the old meat cooking routine.

Sometimes  I actually miss a meatless meal, so I whip one up for a change, just to add a new twist to my meal planning.

As always, please share your favorite meatless meal idea with all of us.

Signs Of Spring – Or Mass Confusion

Spring 2010 - Christmas Cactus is a late bloomerA couple of weeks ago, on Saturday, we had a gorgeous day.  It was sunny, pleasantly warm, with the temperature  in the low 50ties, but what was so peculiar about it, is that it’s still the middle of winter.  Mother Nature reminded us of this reality during this past weekend.

As you know, I love nature and gardening, so I could not resist to go outside and check out how my garden is doing this time of the year.

I was very surprised, and quite confused, when I noticed some of my spring plants are already popping out of the ground.  It definitely is way too early for them to be peeking out, but then again, it’s the call of Mother Nature.

I enjoy sharing everyday events with all of you, so I grabbed my camera and took some pictures, just to give you some hope that even though you might not see signs of spring in your area, spring definitely is on its way.

Spring 2010 - Daffodils are peeking out

These are my Daffodils peeking out of the ground.

Spring 2010 - Red Sedum is squeezing through

Red Sedum is squeezing out from between the old shoots from last year.

Spring 2010 - Hyacinths are popping out

Hyacinths are poking through, and a nearby tulip is trying to compete as well.

In case you are wondering why I have a Christmas Cactus at the top of this post….well wonder no more, since the poor thing is confused, and decided to bloom now, rather than for Christmas, as it’s expected blooming season.

There is a very nice story behind that cactus as well, so here it comes.

Few years back, I worked with a really nice bunch of ladies who also knew how much I loved plants and flowers, and I had a Christmas Cactus on my desk.  While I was going on vacation, instead of taking the plant home, they offered to take care of it for me, and they did a wonderful job.

When I came back to work (two weeks later), I noticed that my plant looked great, vibrant, full of life.  I was very grateful that they took such good care of my plant, but they both had this certain look on their face, that something was not right.

As honest as they were, all true friends should be, they informed me that this was a replacement plant, as they “killed” the original one, without knowing what really happened.  “It just died” – they exclaimed!  I did not mind.  It was just a plant, and plants do die.  No big deal.

We all laughed uncontrollably about it.  They felt so much better by telling me the truth, and I could not believe that they actually went to so much trouble finding another cactus for me, an out of season plant during that particular time of the year.

So, when the time came for me to move and leave the company, I took the cactus with me, and now every time I look at it (it is hanging in my kitchen window), I think of our friendship and reminisce about all the great times we spent together.

I hope you enjoyed the Christmas Cactus story, and the early signs of spring.

Merry Christmas to All

VertepWishing you all a very Merry Christmas.

May you enjoy the special foods you prepared for this Holiday, and the company of your family and friends.

I am very thankful for the whole year I spent with all of you, my new friends on various websites and Facebook.

I posted my first article around this time last year, and now I just can’t stay away from my computer, posting new items and reading all the interesting things you all are writing about.

I appreciate your comments, and your visits to my site.

I am enjoying your support, and right now I have about two thousand readers, some from as far as South Africa, and Jamaica.

What a small world we live in.

Also, I would like to thank all my family and friends who support me and subscribe to my site via email, as well as all my fans from Facebook.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Veselykh Sviat Rizdva Khrystovoho i Shchaslyvoho Novoho Roku! (Ukrainian)

Wesolych Swiat Bozego Narodzenia oraz Szczesliwego Nowego Roku! (Polish)

maligayang pasko at manigong bagong taon! (Tagalog is an Austronesian language spoken in the Philippines)

Buon Natale, Buone Feste and Felice Anno Nuovo! ( Italian)

PS.  I would like to ask all of my readers, who speak other languages besides the ones mentioned above, to leave comments with  Christmas Greetings in their language,  and I will keep on updating this post with these greetings.  Thank you very much.

Special News – Wonderful Prize

2644 1942 DeSoto Custom Convertible

Creative Commons License photo credit: bsabarnowl

Today was my last day at work before the Christmas Holiday,  so after I got home I decided to catch up on reading all my favorite blogs.

Many times this actually relaxes me and puts me in a totally different state of mind.  There are so many interesting posts to read, and all so easily found in one place.  I also enjoy leaving comments, expressing my opinion, and sharing my thoughts with others…You could say,  I exercise my freedom of speech.  The people who know me best, would agree with this statement.  I am “Miss Independent” who’s not afraid of speaking up, especially if I feel that the situation might benefit from my input.  Maybe sometimes I should keep my opinion to myself, but what can you say…once the cat is out of the bag, it’s hard to stick him back in.

So as I said, today I was catching up on some of my missed reading…AND…was very pleasantly surprised!!

Do you want to know why?…maybe I should tell you about it some other time, when you have more time to listen…I’m just kidding…I would not want the suspense to kill you…after all it’s time to be merry!!

I was selected as “The Commenter Of The Week” on one of my favorite blogs, All Women Stalk.  Plus, as the icing on the cake, I  WON a super nice  Prize (click on the word Prize  to find out what the prize is)…everything takes some effort you know… and you might get hooked on reading all their great posts as well.

I am so excited and honored, that I had to write this post and share this great news with all of you.

But don’t you worry, I did not forget about my promise to you about posting my cookie recipes….I do have until New Year to fulfill my promise, and I will.  Believe in me… Please.

Hot Cocoa Mix – Party Favors

Hot cocao mix favorLast but not least, I had to share with you a really easy but useful, and quite presentable, gift idea for party favors, stocking stuffer, kid’s gifts, or a thoughtful gift for anyone on your list.

My daughter made these party favors for all the Pampered Chef attendees, and agreed for me to post these for your pleasure.

Supplies:

  • Hot Cocoa mix
  • Chocolate Chip morsels
  • Mini marshmallows
  • Disposable cake decorating plastic bags
  • Yarn or ribbon
  • Tags (optional)

Instructions:

  1. Fill each cake decorating plastic bag with:
  2. 4 Tbs of hot cocoa mix (Carnation, in this case)
  3. ½ cup of mini marshmallows
  4. ¼ cup of Chocolate Chip morsels
  5. Tie at the top with a color yarn or ribbon
  6. Attach a tag with instructions for hot cocoa preparation (optional).

Hot cocao mix favors

My daughter loves crafts, so she prepared special snow flake tags, with hot cocoa preparation instructions, and attached them to each cone with a yarn tie.  Doesn’t this look lovely??

Tip: If you use different brand of cocoa mix, please read directions for the amount  of cocoa needed for two servings.  Some brands might require more or less than 2 Tbs per serving.

Let it Snow..Let it Snow…Let it Snow…

Let it snow....let it snow...let it snowWe all love snow, but it just comes at the wrong time….or when we are not totally ready for it, don’t you agree?

Shopping is not done, cookies are not baked, the long trip home is still in the planning stages….but all has to be put on hold….to shovel the snow…oh well….”if you can’t get what you want, you have to want what you have”…isn’t that the truth!!!  It always could be worse….at least that is what I’m telling myself, to feel better.

So,  we got some snow, lots of snow, and it still is coming, so there will be more snow,  but at least it does not look like these pictures I am about to share with you (you see what I mean by making myself feel better?)

Harsh winter 2

Wow….that is brutal….

Harsh winter 5

At least we did not get that much snow…yet..

Harsh winter

Ok.   I think I am feeling better now.   Time to shovel again…

So, there are only few more shopping days remaining until Christmas, and Hanukkah already began, but  you are still running around looking for some great gift ideas.  Also, your budget is running dry, yet the list is not complete….well you can always complete it with some great homemade gifts, or gifts from the heart.

Here are some ideas:

  • Homemade cookies or cakes
  • Homemade candy
  • Cookie lollipops
  • Festive popcorn (popcorn mixed with melted pastel chocolate mints)
  • Coupon book filled with things you can do for that special person on your list:
  • Take them shopping
  • Treat them to lunch
  • Take them to the movies
  • Help them clean their house or their car
  • Invite them to your house for dinner
  • Get together for a tea or coffee and offer a shoulder to lean on

I used the coupon idea for my daughter’s 30th Birthday, and presented her with a book of 30 different coupons.  She loved it, and we had fun fulfilling these throughout the year.

Everyone has a creative side, so I know you can come up with some more ideas, which I would love you to share with me, and our readers.

If you have exhausted all your ideas, please check out these:

12 Best Inexpensive Gifts for Christmas” (click here ), and of course for any other occasion.

Hopefully now you can relax (at least with brainstorming), and get ready for the HOLIDAYS!!!!

HAPPY HANUKKAH!!!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!

Saint Nicholas or Santa Claus???

sint-arrive - St. NicholasSaint Nicholas, was the “gift giver” I was familiar with during my childhood.  He had a white beard, was dressed in bishop’s garbs, carried a crozier, and arrived on a white horse. On December 6th, he was visiting well-behaved children, and placing candy and cookies under their pillows. If you were really good, then he would drop off more goodies on Christmas Eve. You also were expected to know your Catechism, in case he decided to quiz you, before leaving you a gift.  We recited prayers and songs dedicated to St. Nicholas, instead of leaving him milk and cookies.

I was not familiar with “Santa” the chubby, jolly old man with white beard, dressed in a red suit and an elf‘s hat, with deer pulling his sleigh. Oh well, those were the days, when Christmas was about the Birth of Christ, rather than Christmas shopping, and children were happy with whatever they received, even if it was not exactly what they wished for.

My children grew up knowing both “gift givers”; St. Nicholas on December 6th, and Santa Claus on Christmas Eve. You would think that it couldn’t get better than that…..until, one year they asked if we could celebrate Hanukkah, so they could receive gifts for eight days….…..figure that!!

St. Nicholas- Byzantine IconSt. Nicholas was a bishop, who was born in a small city in Greco-Roman Lycia, an area known now as Turkey. He was a bishop of coastal city of Myra. He was a man of great caring and generosity, and gift giver to children and the needy. There is an urban legend that St. Nicholas dropped gold coins into the hanging stocking of three young ladies, who were too poor to get married, as their father did not have enough money for a dowry. St. Nicholas  is also known as the father of Orthodoxy. He lived a long life and died on December 6th, 343 A.D.

Saint Nicholas Day is a commemorative celebration of St. Nicholas,  and is celebrated on December 6th, according to the Gregorian calendar, or on December 19th by the Julian calendar.

I have great respect for Saint Nicholas, and would like to introduce you to this celebration around the world, but mostly in  countries nearest to my location. As for the jolly old man in a red suit, that will have to be another story, later on.

I came across a site which alphabetically lists 34 different counties, from Aruba to United States, describing their traditional celebration of St. Nicholas Day.  I will share a few inserts with you, but for more detail and countries of your interest, you should check out this  site.

ukrainian-nick

Ukraine
St. Nicholas, Sviatyij Mykolai, comes to Ukraine on December 6th (or the 19th in the Orthodox/Julian calendar). It is a happy day with visiting and sleigh rides. Schools have plays telling Nicholas stories and the saint visits local churches. Dressed as a Byzantine bishop, the good saint is often accompanied by angels. He quizzes children on their catechism before giving gifts. St. Nicholas Day is the main day for gift-giving, though gifts are also becoming associated with Christmas Day. Today many Ukrainian churches have St. Nicholas celebrations to help children understand that the holy man Nicholas came long before Santa Claus.

Sw. Mikolaj

Poland
St. Nicholas, called Sw. Mikolaj, is a saintly, dignified figure in Poland; he comes as a bishop, carrying crosier. Descending from Heaven with an angel helper, he travels on foot or in a sleigh pulled by a white horse as he visits homes in the countryside. When he appears, the eager children cry, “He has come! He has come!” St. Nicholas’ presence fills the room with his smile, the twinkle in his eye, and his welcoming, booming voice. Children recite their catechism and prayers.

St. Nicholas rebukes or praises, as appropriate, before distributing holy pictures, red apples or oranges, and pierniki (saint cookies made with honey and spices). If he doesn’t come in person, treats are put under sleeping children’s pillows or left in freshly cleaned and polished shoes left out for the saint. St. Nicholas acts in his traditional religious role as a protector and patron saint while encouraging Polish children to be well-behaved, as there are switches for naughty children.

stnick-advent-retreat - St. Nicholas

United States
Bishop St. Nicholas is celebrated by many churches and by communities which have a Dutch heritage. On the Advent Sunday closest to St. Nicholas Day, December 6, some churches have St. Nicholas festivals, large or small, with the good saint himself appearing to greet children, give instruction and encouragement, and hand out treats for children of all ages. In some places he is a focus in worship and in others he is part of a special fellowship event. St. Nicholas may also be the inspiration for a special Advent project—one which shows his concern for justice and relief of suffering. These observances are most prevalent in Orthodox and Episcopal churches, though not uncommon in many others, as well.

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Canada
Many immigrant groups brought treasured traditions to Canada; Ukrainians and Dutch are among those who celebrate St. Nicholas. For Ukrainians, Christmas begins with St. Nicholas Day, when young children receive small gifts from their patron saint, Nicholas.

Parishes and schools remember Nicholas’ providing dowry money for needy young women by giving small bags of gold-colored coins to children. The children sing to welcome the saint, louder and more enthusiastically as they wait. The saint, on foot or by sleigh, comes dressed as a resplendent Byzantine bishop, accompanied by a troupe of angels. The angels help distribute goodies and small gifts.

Hopefully he’ll place something nice under your pillow on December 6th, or December 19th, depending on the calendar you follow.

Happy St. Nicholas Day.

Giving Thanks – Thanksgiving

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Thanksgiving is fast approaching, family and friends are finalizing their travel arrangements, turkey is defrosting, Black Friday is inevitable, and most of all,

TIME TO GIVE THANKS:

I AM THANKFUL:

FOR THE HUSBAND
WHO IS ON THE SOFA
BEING A COUCH POTATO,

BECAUSE HE IS HOME WITH ME
AND NOT OUT AT THE BARS.

FOR THE WIFE
WHO SAYS IT’S HOT DOGS TONIGHT,

BECAUSE SHE IS HOME WITH ME,
AND NOT OUT WITH SOMEONE ELSE

FOR THE TEENAGER
WHO IS COMPLAINING ABOUT DOING DISHES

BECAUSE IT MEANS SHE IS AT HOME,
NOT ON THE STREETS.

FOR THE TAXES I PAY
BECAUSE IT MEANS
I AM EMPLOYED.

FOR THE MESS TO CLEAN AFTER A PARTY
BECAUSE IT MEANS I HAVE
BEEN SURROUNDED BY FRIENDS

FOR THE CLOTHES THAT FIT A LITTLE TOO SNUG
BECAUSE IT MEANS
I HAVE ENOUGH TO EAT.

FOR MY SHADOW THAT WATCHES ME WORK
BECAUSE IT MEANS
I AM OUT IN THE SUNSHINE

FOR A LAWN THAT NEEDS MOWING,
WINDOWS THAT NEED CLEANING,
AND GUTTERS THAT NEED FIXING

BECAUSE IT MEANS I HAVE A HOME.

FOR ALL THE COMPLAINING
I HEAR ABOUT THE GOVERNMENT

BECAUSE IT MEANS
WE HAVE FREEDOM OF SPEECH.

FOR THE PARKING SPOT
I FIND AT THE FAR END OF THE PARKING LOT

BECAUSE IT MEANS I AM CAPABLE OF WALKING
AND I HAVE BEEN BLESSED WITH TRA NSPORTATION.

FOR MY HUGE HEATING BILL
BECAUSE IT MEANS
I AM WARM.

FOR THE LADY BEHIND ME IN CHURCH WHO SINGS OFF KEY
BECAUSE IT MEANS
I CAN HEAR.

FOR THE PILE OF LAUNDRY AND IRONING
BECAUSE IT MEANS
I HAVE CLOTHES TO WEAR

FOR WEARINESS AND ACHING MUSCLES
AT THE END OF THE DAY

BECAUSE IT MEANS I HAVE BEEN
CAPABLE OF WORKING HARD.

FOR THE ALARM THAT GOES OFF
IN THE EARLY MORNING HOURS

BECAUSE IT MEANS I AM ALIVE.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL!!!!!

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